Just had my own Anchorman: The Legend of Ron Burgundy moment with my three-year-old. Luckily, I caught the whole thing on video, so what follows is a transcript of a real conversation with a toddler.
Izzie: I want something to eat.
Izzie: I want something to eaaaaaaattttt!
Me: No. There’s no way you can still be hungry. Why do you want to eat?
Izzie: Because… [no answer]
Me: You’ve just spent all afternoon eating.
Izzie: Um, I want to eat…I want to get fat like you.
Izzie: I want to get fat like you, daddy.
Me: That’s really hurtful. Is daddy fat?
Me: Is daddy bald too?
Me: Is daddy a great big loser at life?
Me: Thanks so much.
Izzie: I have something to eat?
Me: No. Look, come here, sit down. I want to have a talk with you. Do you really think I’m fat?
Me: Is mummy fat?
Me: Who else is fat?
Izzie: Rosie [her baby sister]
Me: What about you?
Izzie: I am fat.
Me: But they’re thin and you’re definitely not fat.
Me: So what do you think ‘fat’ means?
Me: Fat means brick?
Me: What does ‘brick’ mean?
Izzie: Brick means beads.
Me: Brick means beads? What does ‘beads’ mean?
Me: [pause] Are you just saying things you can see?
Me: What does ‘fat’ mean?
Izzie: Err… [no answer]
Me: Do you know what ‘fat’ means?
My wife: What do you think it means, Izzie?
Me: Do you really think that’s what it means or are you still just saying things you can see?
Me: I love lamp.
Me: You said daddy was fat.
Me: But you don’t know what it means, do you?
Izzie: I do!
Me: So what does it mean?
Me: So what does ‘fort’ mean?
Izzie: Fort means eeurgh! Yuk!
Me: [chuckling] You are such a freakazoid.
Izzie: I have a bath now?
Me: Sure, go and have a bath. But sweetheart, don’t call people fat, okay? It’s not nice. Okay?
Later, I tried to explain to her what ‘fat’ meant, and you know what? It’s an awful lot harder than you realise. I told her that when you eat too much you can become very big, but she thought that was a great idea.
‘No,’ I said, ‘You don’t want to be big.’
‘But I a big girl!’
‘Yes, you’re a big girl, but tall and grown-up big, not fat-big. Fat-big is when you’re big sideways. Look, see daddy’s big belly. When it’s big like this, it’s fat, okay? And when your arms are big, and they hang down, that’s…well, that could be because you’re old, and…you know what? Yeah. Sod it. Fat means brick. Fat means wall. If you’re built like a house, that’s what fat means.’
She was right all along…
[And in case you haven’t seen the movie, here’s the Brick Tamland scene where he loves lamp.]